LiPo's are LiPo's ..... the specs come down to basically 4.2V and 4.35V per cell configs .... DJI chose the 4.35V HV type.
Cars are cars. They all are the same because they have 4 wheels and have to fit the same roads. The specs come down to them fitting the road.
Same argument, different subject. Does it make sense? No. Neither does yours.
Specs have squat to do with reliability.
Sorry, just because LiPo A and LiPo B put out the same voltage, does not mean they were manufactured using the same quality of components, nor manufactured with the same methods, nor with the same QC checks. Nor does it mean that after 100 charge-discharge cycles they will both still be the same. Maybe, but no guarantee.
Not saying OEM is the best. Frequently its not. Sometimes non-OEM has to be better to compete. Unfortunately most of the time non-OEM simply has to be cheaper to compete and unfortunately, most of the time you get what you pay for.
I use non-OEM batteries in my Nikon cameras. If they fail, so what. Worst that can happen is I don't get a shot. Its not like the camera is gonna fall out of the sky. I do NOT fly with non-OEM batteries in my quads. If it fails I drop 4 grand out of the sky and possibly damage something far more expensive depending on where it was at the time. Its simply not worth the risk just to save $50 on a battery and have DJI say warranty void because I used a non-OEM battery. But, thats my choice.
If you are flying with non-OEM and doing fine with them, hey, good for you. More power on ya for saving a few bob (or quid or whatever you Brits call a bit of money). We all have to make our own choices and I am not gonna dump on you for making yours which conflicts with mine. Its your bird, fly it in your own way.