I've read every post in this thread.
Bottom line: I'll do what I want, you do what you want.
Consider this:
You've charged your batteries, packed up, and headed out the door.
Scenario #1 - a hobby/recreational flight (and inside the Part 101 'bubble')
Wife: Where you going honey?
You: There's a funeral this afternoon. I've never video'd a funeral before, and I think it would be a blast, and a good way to unwind. The wife and family of the dead guy is 'OK' with it, so I'm going to relax a while and buzz around the mourners... y'know, get some cool shots of the hearse and all.
Wife: OK, have fun... hey, I don't feel like cooking tonight, would you stop and get some take-out on your way home? I'll light some candles in the bedroom.
Scenario #2 - NOT a hobby/recreational flight
Wife: Where you going honey?
You: My boss asked me to fly over and video a funeral later today, for reasons unknown. I don't know the wife or any family of the dead guy, but y'know... my boss asked me to do it. I haven't checked with the family, but I really don't think a drone buzzing overhead will bother anyone.
Wife: Ok, be careful... hey, I don't feel so good, could you stop on the way home and pick up some tampons? The Jumbo ones

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The above is "just for fun" and the result of a good fish dinner and 2-3 Bud Lights.
BTW, I'm not trying to change your mind, or convince you of anything, because I really don't care WHAT you think, or do... and if I wanted to shoot aerial video for someone else, I surely would NOT announce it on the internet.