I can see both sides of the argument here. I started off with 250 race quads where the skill set is completely different, no real interest in hovering and changing altitude, they are all about forward motion at low level and high speed, avoiding obstacles along the way as you duck in and out of trees, goalposts etc.
Phantoms are a very stable aerial platform, ideal for getting unusual video or still images. As well as that they are packed with tech that IMHO many new pilots rely on too much and it is this that accounts for fly-aways and other crashes. Don't get me wrong - I LOVE MY PHANTOM!
But I guess you have a simple choice, buy a small "toy" UAV to learn flying skills on, or go for broke (hopefully NOT literally) with your choice of phantom from day one. Whichever route you take the chances are you will have crashes so get used to it and ENJOY