Small aircraft pilots have a pilot license, and have to undergo training, certification and periodic checks. a big part of the training is about safety. Not to mention that a real pilot is always putting his/her life at risk, so likely to pay attention
Drones, on the other hand, can be bought by any idiot with no exam/certification, and flown dangerously without any personal risk. As much as I don't like sensationalist coverage, drones are getting dangerous (this hobby used to be much safer when you had to build your own drone, learning along the way and developing your skills). I'm willing to bet that 80% of the Phantom pilots cannot safely fly their Phantom in ATTI mode on a windy day
As for the people upset at the use of the term "drone", that battle was lost a long time ago. Here's what the Merriam Webster dictionary has to say:
Definition of DRONE
3: an unmanned aircraft or ship guided by remote control or onboard computers
And that's what a Phantom is...