Hello.you may be able to salvage that control if it is ONLY the connector which is damaged. Pop the top off of the control and solder directly to the board? may be work a try.good luck!
I forgot to post my results, I ended up getting another control on flebay for $40.
I was about to install my new itelite panel antenna and for some reason I asked my friend if he wanted to buy my phantom 3 (to offset the cost of my new
mavic 2 pro) and he said yes.
so now I have a NIB itelite antenna, my controller with a damaged video module and upgraded phone/tablet holder just sitting on my shelf.
I was going to post it for sale but being new to this site it would be harder to have people's trust. I've been selling for many years and I understand.