Just get one you'll love it. Otherwise get me a + and I'll share my joy and pain with you

I really think the number of problems are small in comparison to the number of units out there. I've been running a P2V since the first of the year and never lost control aside from one time and that was from descending straight down too fast, I believe. Keep in mind that most people will post on these forums because they have a problem/question/issue, not to report that everything's a-ok. So it would seem that everyone is having problems. I do think the newer firmware upgrades are causing some ill-effects, so I'm sticking with 1.08 for the time-being.
One thing you might want to do is considering picking up a P2v instead of the plus. That way if something bad does happen you're only into it for about half what a plus goes for (and sadly half what I payed for my P2v). The other thing about the P2V, especially for a new flyer, is that they will take a good amount of abuse. I've had some pretty horrific crashes where I had to dig my camera out of a snow bank and it still worked fine after putting it back together. It seems that the new gimbal can be rendered useless pretty easily in a crash, which basically takes away the benefit of the plus. Although after checking out the video from the +, it's very difficult for me not to pull the trigger on one. But so far I've been able to exercise restraint.