Do I realize that many people have never soldered before? Of course! However if they want to continue life with never soldering anything, they probably picked the wrong hobby! Sooner or later a motor will need to be changed, an ESC will fail and then you'll have to fix it. Rather than listen to people like you scare them out of doing a SIMPLE task, they can spend $10 on tools, head to YouTube, watch a 10 minute tutorial on soldering and practice on some bare wires. Now they can feel confident with some new life skills that may come in handy somewhere else down the road. I doubt they will feel any more superior when they are done, but maybe a little proud of something new they picked up on.
Same can be said for the $400+ quad copter they bought, there are forums dedicated to it. Seems enough people find them in seeking the help they need with a problem. The info is there for the search too BEFORE they need it too. Not my fault or anyone else's if they can't take the time to search their issues out or read about the common ones before they fly. The answers are out there! Even so, rather than tell someone to search, I try to just answer the problem and help them out.
The Phantom as it sits is pretty plug and play as it is if you ask me. DJI is killing it with what they have brought to the table over the last few years in that regard. However, it's still a V1 (now V2) copter so those that complain about it's difficulty setting up may have gotten to the party a little early. It's very much an early adopter product still that will require a prerequisite of skills to use and maintain. DJI may market it in a pretty white box but it is not an 'it just works' Apple product quite yet. As for not making it any easier... Until the FAA issues some rules, I am more than happy with a slow roll out before that era happens. Just don't want our hobby getting to far out of hand before we get those regulations. If that happens, the party may be over before it ever really gets started.
Anyone has the right to get involved into this hobby, but it's not for everyone either. Do so knowing what you are getting into, from fixing and maintaining to upgrading and flying responsibly. At the end of the day, there is more to all this than some pretty pictures with a GoPro.